There is no way to happiness, Happiness is the way.

Your life will always be filled with challenges. It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway. Alfred D Souza said, "For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life. But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life."

This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment that you have. And treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time ... and remember that time waits for no one...

So stop waiting until you finish school, until you go back to school, until you lose ten pounds, until you gain ten pounds, until you have kids, until your kids leave the house, until you start work, until you retire, until you get married, until you get divorced, until Friday night, until Sunday morning, until you get a new car or home, until your car or home is paid off, until spring, until summer, until fall, until winter, until you are off welfare, until the first or fifteenth, until your song comes on, until you've had a drink, until you've sobered up, until you die, until you are born again to decide that there is no better time than right now to be happy...

"THE LOVE YOU GIVE IS THE LOVE YOU RECEIVE"

“Love has made me laugh and made me cry; it has made me sing and made me scream. While one shade of love broke my heart another shade of love restored it. Love, in all its shades…”

While scientists debate how much of the human brain we use to think, it leads one to wonder how much of the human heart we use to LOVE. And why the need to love and be loved? Can we love more than we do? Are we all born with the same capacity to love? When pertaining to love, the questions are endless.

Love fuels passion, hope and desire. It generates creativity giving us purpose and making us feel alive. When we think of love, we primarily think of romantic love yet love comes in various shades, all unique, all part of fulfilling us with whole enriched lives. However, like the even exchange of the breath, the love we give is the love we receive.


Tips on Loving and Being Loved:

• LOVE BEGINS WITH YOU: Your inner voice is where your story of love begins: It is hard to feel worthy of love if someone is criticizing you all the time and especially if that someone is talking in your head. Stop self-loathing; it’s a waste of time. Stop comparing yourself to others and feeling like a victim. Dare to be proud of yourself, look for your strengths, watch for the negative talk and stop it.

• GRATITUDE REFLECTION:   Like any muscle, the heart get stronger with exercise. Gratitude reflection is a great exercise for opening the heart. Take two minutes each morning when you open your eyes and two minutes each night right before you close them to give thanks. Just go through the list of all the things you are grateful for—beginning with your ability to feel gratitude for the job that gets you out of bed each morning.

• DECLARE LOVE:  Give passion to everything in your life. Love your walks, your gardening, your age, the family you created, the weather patterns where you live. Grab onto it all as if you might lose it. See through a child’s eyes. Be thrilled and excited about life. Find miracles everywhere. Use the word love more often when describing aspects of your life.

• LITTLE IS BIG: A big heart is full of endless possibilities to show love in little ways.  Engage in small acts of kindness that cost little money, if any, and take little time. It is amazing how effective small acts of kindness are and how long they are remembered. Open doors, smile, call a friend that is hurting, put a card in the mail, pick up an extra coffee, make “just because” gestures part of your daily life. Don’t think it, do it! And yes, we all have more time for this than we know.

• LOVE LIKE THE OCEAN: You have the ability to love like the seven seas reaching around the world and back. And like the ocean putting passion into each and every wave, all your love matters and makes a difference. We are all capable of grand love.

• THINK HAMMER INSTEAD OF NAIL: At some time in our lives we will all experience pain and hardships. These experiences hurt and lead us to build walls around us to protect us from others. Yet, pain and hardship are great tools for opening the heart. You must have courage and strength and allow your hardships to open the flow of love in your life.

• UNDERSTAND MOTHER NATURE: Mother Nature bestowed us with romantic love so we can reproduce, maternal/paternal love so we can care for the next generation and friendship so we can connect and protect one another. However, in addition to the bonding gift of emotional love, Mother Nature intended love to serve us in many ways. One way is by easing anxiety. The next time you find yourself in a situation with a coworker, stuck in traffic or angry at a stranger, stay in the love. Witness how calmly your body reacts and how much more you can handle in your life.

• CUT OTHERS A BREAK: Most people are coming from a place of exhaustion and/or feeling unappreciated. People are overwhelmed and lonely, andEmotions 101 is not taught in any school. Regardless of how easy someone’s life may appear, they have their personal hardships. Simply cut them a break.

• REMOVE THE DEBRIS: Think of a river heading home to the sea. As she voyages forward her journey is hampered if debris gets in her way and clogs her up. Anger, resentment, fear, judgment and blame are debris hampering the flow of love in your life. Self reflect, take responsibility and open your heart to love. You can find tools to release the debris by reading books, watching lectures, praying, forgiving others.

• LET GO: Many people rarely if ever hear the words, I love you. It can be scary and awkward, but the more you say it the easier it gets. Just say: I love you to your mother, father, sister, brother, friend, anyone you love. End conversations with I love you. Just see how good it feels and how well it is accepted. Witness the love being returned to you. And remember to say, 

How to detect HIDDEN CAMERAS in TRIAL ROOMS ??

In front of the trial room, take yr mobile and make sure that your mobile can make calls,
Then enter into the trial room, and make a call. If u can't make a call, there is a HIDDEN CAMERA . . . . !!
This is due to interference of fiber optic during signal transfer . . .!!
Plz share it with all girls to save them and even with boys to save their sisters/friends/lovers . .
Don't feel shame to share this MSG.
It's our duty...!!!

I really wonder why people suddenly change

I really wonder why people suddenly change
after they get what they wanted.

One day they are sweet, the next day they are
not.

One day they are there with you, the next day
they are not.

One day you are important to them, the next day you are worthless.

One day they love you, the next day they don’t
care about you.

That's how ironic people and things can be, pretty
lies wrapped up in ribbons...

And the worst part is…
that kind of people still get what they want in
life...

And we are left behind crying for them....
Wondering how they changed…

Things No One Can Steal From You

·  Your uniqueness. – You are unrepeatable. There is a magic about you that is all your own.  Having a low opinion of yourself is not humility, it’s self-destruction.  Holding your uniqueness in high regard is not egotism, it’s a necessary precondition to happiness and success.  You deserve to wear a smile in your heart.  Not because of what you have or what you do, but because of who you are .  Yes, you are changing each day, but you are always amazing just as you are.

·  How you feel about yourself. – It takes a long time to learn how to NOT judge yourself through someone else’s eyes, but once you do the world is yours for the taking.  We have all been placed on this earth to discover our own life, and we will never be happy or successful if we try to live someone else’s idea of it.  So give up worrying too much about what others think of you.  What they think isn’t all that important.  What is important is how you feel about yourself.

·  Your intuition. – If you’re thinking just like everyone else, you aren’t really thinking.  Follow your intuition.  Do what makes sense to you.  Never compare your journey to someone else’s.  Everyone has their ownstruggles, their own challenges, and a different path that they chose to get to where they are.  Remember, you don’t need to wait for external circumstances to perfectly align in order to show up for the life you’ve been dreaming of.  What you’re looking for is already somewhere inside you.

·  Your passion. – If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.  Find your passion, whatever it is.  Become it, let it become you, and great things will happen FOR you, TO you, and BECAUSE of you.  And even if things don’t work out as planned, you’ll still be heading in the right direction.  Because nothing you have passion for is ever a waste of time, no matter how it turns out.

·  Your determination. – When life gives you something that makes you feel afraid, that’s when life gives you a chance to grow strong and be brave.  Nothing is permanent in this crazy world, not even your mistakes, failures, or troubles.  If you keep your eyes open and your feet moving forward, you’ll eventually find what you need.

·  Your attitude. – Something nobody can take away from you is the way you choose to respond to what others say and do to you.  The last of your freedoms is to choose your attitude in any given circumstance.  Choose to be happy and positive.  It is not always easy to find happiness in ourselves, but it is always impossible to find it elsewhere.  Regardless of the situation we face, our attitude is our choice.  So smile as you walk away and move on from negative people and their actions.

·  Your ability to spread love and kindness. – The measure of your life will not be in what you accumulate, but in what you give away.  And 99 percent of the time you get what you put in, so give freely.  Charity can be in the form of a smile, lending an ear or a helping hand.  There are many acts of kindness that don’t cost a cent.  Remember, the ultimate goal of all goals is to be happy.  If you want to be happy make those around you happy.

·  Your hope. – It’s not the load that breaks you down, it’s the way you carry it.  The biggest obstacles that stand between a person and what they want in life is the will to try it, and the faith to believe it’s possible.  Hope is the little voice inside your head that whispers “maybe” when it seems like the whole world is shouting “impossible!”

·  Your knowledge and life experiences. – Character and wisdom are sculpted over time.  They come with loss, lessons, and triumphs.  They come after doubts, second guesses, and unknowns.  If there was a definitive path to success, everyone would be on it.  The seeds of your success are planted in your past failures.  Your best stories will come from overcoming your greatest struggles.  Your praises will be birthed from your pains.  So keep standing, keep learning, and keep living.

·  Your choice to move on emotionally. – Don’t let past relationships and old mistakes ruin your future.  Don’t let someone or something that didn’t make it in your life continue to hurt you.  If you do, you’re still giving a portion of your life to something that no longer exists – it’s like letting your happiness slip into a black hole.  Learn the lesson, release the pain, and move on.  Scars remind us of where we have been, not where we are headed.

What Is LOVE??

"LOVE, PYAR, ISHQ, MOHABBAT Jab hota hai jisko hota hai, duniya badl deta hai,
Dhadkano Ko teez, saanso ko dheere kar deta hai,
Neende udata hai, din mein sapne dikhata hai,
sikha deta hai ki kisi pe roz mar ke jeena kya hota hai,
sikha deta hai ki woh 7 kadam kaise lete hai, jinme 7 Janm ka fasla pura karna hota hai....."!!


Pyar karne ke liye zindagi itni choti pad jaati hai, pata nahi log nafrat ke liye kaise waqt nikal lete hai...


never cry for any relationship in life,
because for the one whom you cry does not deserve your tearsand the one who deserves will never let you cry...

KYU HUM ITNE BADE HO GAYE...??

Maa ki godh,
Papa ke kaandhe,
Aaj yaad aate hain Bachpan ke woh lamhe,
.
.
Rote hue soo jana ,
Khud se baat karte hue Kho
jaana , Wo Maa ka aaawaz lagana , Aur khana apne haathon se
khilana,
.
.
Wo PAPA ka daant lagana ,
Apni zid puri karwane ke liye nakhre dikhana , Kya wo din
the bachpan ke suhaane ,
.
.
Kyun lagte hain sab aaj sab
begane... Ab zid bhi apni...
Sapne bhi apne... Kis se kahein kya
chahiye......??
Manzilon ko dhoondte hue
kahan kho gaye..??
.
.
.
.
KYU HUM ITNE BADE HO
GAYE...??

Best Moments Of LIFE

1.To fall in love.
.
2.To clear your last exam.
.
3.To wake up and realize its still
possible
to sleep.
.
4.To get a phone call saying class is
cancelled.
.
5.To feel butterflies every time you
see
THAT PERSON..
.
6.To see an old friend again and to
feel
that things have not Changed..
.
7.To touch the fingers of newly
born child..
.
8.Speaking to an old friend on
sunday
evening..
.
9.Waiting for a call or message from
your loved one when you are
alone..
.
10.Walking alone on a silent road at
night
and listening to your favourite
songs..
.
11.Riding on a highway while its
raining
.
12.Speaking to the special one on
phone
while standing infront of the
mirror.
.
Feels just Awesome :)
.
and the last one is 'rite now'..
.
13.While reading this there was constant
smile on your face which was one
of the best moments I believe..!
.
Keep smiling, It really suits u...! :)
.
Hope I Made you smile :)

YOU Only YOU

I Like Everyone..

But I Love Only one

I Live For Everyone..

But I Breathe For only one

I Talk To Everyone..

But I Share everything To only one

I Smile With Everyone..

But Smile Is for only one

I Am For Everyone..

But I Belong To only one

And that 'Only One' is only "YOU"

Things You Must Give Up to Move Forward

• If you want to fly and move on to better things, you have to give up the things that weigh you down – which is not always as obvious and easy as it sounds.
• Starting today, give up…
• Letting the opinions of others control your life. – People know your name,not your story .  They’ve heard what you’ve done, but not what you’ve been through.  So take their opinions of you with a grain of salt.  In the end, it’s not what others think, it’s what you think about yourself that counts.  Sometimes you have to do exactly what’s best for you and your life, not what’s best for everyone else.
• The shame of past failures. – You will fail sometimes, and that’s okay.  The faster you accept this, the faster you can get on with being brilliant.  Your past does not equal your future.  Just because you failed yesterday; or all day today; or a moment ago; or for the last six months; or for the last sixteen years, doesn’t have any impact on the current moment.  All that matters is what you do right now.  
• Being indecisive about what you want. – You will never leave where you are until you decide where you would rather be.  It’s all about finding and pursuing your passion.  Neglecting passion blocks creative flow.  When you’re passionate, you’re energized.  Likewise, when you lack passion, your energy is low and unproductive.  Energy is everything when it comes to being successful.  Make a decision to figure out what you want, and then pursue it passionately.
• Procrastinating on the goals that matter to you. – There are two primary choices in life: to accept conditions as they exist, or accept the responsibility for changing them.  Follow your intuition.  Don’t give up trying to do what you really want to do.  When there is love and inspiration, you can’t go wrong.  And whatever it is you want to do, do it now.  There are only so many tomorrows.  Trust me, in a year from now, you will wish you had started today.
• Choosing to do nothing. – You don’t get to choose how you are going to die, or when.  You can only decide how you are going to live, right now.  Every day is a new chance to choose.  Choose to change your perspective.  Choose to flip the switch in your mind from negative to positive.  Choose to turn on the light and stop fretting about with insecurity and doubt.  Choose to do work that you are proud of.  Choose to see the best in others, and to show your best to others.  Choose to truly LIVE, right now.
• Your need to be right. – If you keep on saying you’re right, even if you are right now, eventually you will be wrong.  Aim for success, but never give up your right to be wrong.  Because when you do, you will also lose your ability to learn new things and move forward with your life.  
• Running from problems that should be fixed. – We make life harder than it has to be.  The difficulties started when… conversations became texting, feelings became subliminal, sex became a game, the word ‘love’ fell out of context, trust faded as honesty waned, insecurities became a way of living, jealously became a habit, being hurt started to feel natural, and running away from it all became our solution.  Stop running!  Face these issues, fix the problems, communicate, appreciate, forgive and LOVE the people in your life who deserve it.
• Making excuses rather than decisions. – Life is a continuous exercise in creative problem solving.  A mistake doesn’t become a failure until you refuse to correct it. Thus, most long-term failures are the outcome of people who make excuses instead of decisions.
• Overlooking the positive points in your life. – What you see often depends entirely on what you’re looking for.  Do your best and surrender the rest.  When you stay stuck in regret of the life you think you should have had, you end up missing the beauty of what you do have.  You will have a hard time ever being happy if you aren’t thankful for the good things in your life right now.  
• Not appreciating the present moment. – We do not remember days, we remember moments.  Too often we try to accomplish something big without realizing that the greatest part of life is made up of the little things.  Live authentically and cherish each precious moment of your journey.  Because when you finally arrive at your desired destination, I guarantee you,another journey will begin.

"Dedicated To My Best Buddies...."

Yah dosti chirag hai,isse jalaye rakhana...
Yah dosti gul,hai isse khilaye rakhana...
Hum rahe ya na rahe iss jahan main...
Bus hamari yaad dil me basaye rakhana…
Dosti insan ki zaroorat hai,Dilon pe dosti
ki huqumat hai.. Aap ke pyar ki wajah se zinda hain,
warna
Khuda ko bhi hamari zaroorat hai...
Aankh to dosti mein dil ki juban hoti
hein...
Dosti mein dard mile to kya ghabrana...
Suna hein dard se dosti jawan hoti hein...
Tute huye phool khusboo de jate hai..
Bite huye pal yaade de jate hai...
Har kisi ka andaaz hai apna apna..
Koi dosti main pyar to…
Koi pyar main dosti de jate hai..
Ishq aur dosti meri jindgi ka guman hai..
Ishq meri ruh hai to dosti mera iman hai..
Ishq pe kardu fida saari zindgi..
Magar dosti pe mera ishq kurban hai...
Dosti to zindagi ka ek khubsurat lamha
hai.. Ye sab rishto se albela hai..
Jise mil jaye wo tanhai main bhi khush
hai...
Jise na mile wo bheed main bhi akela
hai..
wo bheed mai bhe akela hai... wo bheed mai bhe akela hai..."!!!

If All "Relationships" Are Perfect

Imagine... 

If All "Relationships" Are Perfect: 

-NO FIGHTS 

-NO TEARS

-NO ARGUMENTS

-NO MISUNDERSTANDINGS

-NO FEAR OF LOSING THE ONE YOU

LOVE.. 

A Dream Come True... Isn't It??

But Without These, There Would Be... 

-NO SORRY, HUGS & KISSES -

NO SAYING Of The SWEETEST

WORDS 

-NO REASONS To STAY. 

-NO GROWTH Of FAITH In BOTH Of

YOU. 

Now Would You Want It To Be

Perfect.

Love is not about being

perfect...its about loving purely

with all the imperfections

“Why do we keep living in fear and blocking our blessings?”

“Why do we keep living in fear and blocking our blessings?”
I believe it’s because people don’t think they deserve the blessings and the good things. People think they’re not good enough. When you ask someone

what they really want, they usually answer with a list of things they don’t want.
Life is like a boomerang. What you give out, you’re going to get it back. What we believe about ourselves and our life is going to come true for us. If you

keep telling the Universe what you don’t want, how can it give you what you want?
After years of individual counseling with clients and conducting hundreds of workshops and lectures around the world, I found that there is one thing that

heals every problem. And that is: to love yourself.
When people start to love themselves more each day, it’s amazing how their lives get better. They feel better and they are open to more opportunities.

They get the jobs they want. They have the money they need. Their relationships either improve, or the negative ones dissolve and new ones begin. It’s a

very simple premise—loving yourself.
I’ve been criticized for being too simplistic. However I have found that the simple things are usually the most profound and the simple things really work.
When a problem comes up, one of the best things you can do is say these positive affirmations:
All is well.
Everything is working out for my highest good.
Out of this experience only good will come.
I am safe.
When you these repeat them over and over, it will quiet your mind down long enough for the Universe to find a solution for the so-called problem. If you

say it enough times, it will become so.
Life will find miraculous ways to bring good to you.

U Should Proud To Be A GIRL - Satyamev Jayate

“नसीबों वाले हैं, जिनके है बेटियाँ
घर की लक्ष्मी है लड़की,
भविष्य की आवाज़ है लड़की.
सबके सिर का नाज़ है लड़की,
माता-पिता का ताज है लड़की.
घर भर को जन्नत बनती हैं बेटियाँ,
मधुर मुस्कान से उसे सजाती है बेटियाँ.
पिघलती हैं अश्क बनके माँ के दर्द से,
रोते हुए बाबुल को हंसती हैं बेटियाँ.
सहती हैं सारे ज़माने के दर्दों-गम,
अकेले में आंसू बहती हैं बेटियाँ.
आंचल से बुहारती हैं घर के सभी कांटे,
आंगन में फूल खिलाती हैं बेटियाँ.
सुबह की पाक अजान-सी प्यारी लगे,
मंदिर के दिए” की बाती हैं बेटियाँ.
जब आता है वक्त कभी इनकी विदाई का,
जार-जार सबको रुलाती हैं बेटियाँ.”

Always face forward and see your whole life shining bright for you.

''Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you as by the attitude you bring to life; not so much by what happens to you as by the way  your mind looks at what happens.

Circumstances and situations do color life , but you have been given the mind to choose what the color will be. ''-John Homer Miller.

 Go forward with your shoulders back, with your head high, and with a smile . With your enthusiastic spirit , perseverance , and integrity of character , put your intelligence , talents ,and passion into action.

Never let setbacks excuse you from trying again. It often takes many attempts to be a success.

Never let negative people influence you or direct what you do. Always face forward and see your whole life shining bright for you. Never let go of your character , ideals, or activism for the good of this world.

Never let go of the passions that inspire you , guide you , and always smile on you. These passions will lead you to reach your fullest potential . Hold on to them, and they will keep you honest , caring , kind, and generous with the finest gifts your heart can give.

-J acqueline Schiff. 

Expect Good Things. . .

This Vibrational Reality is spinning and becoming, and if you are in anger or fear or despair, you’re nowhere near it. When you get in the vicinity of hope, when you start feeling hopeful, you’re within range. When you feel hopeful, it’s drawing you in; it’s drawing you in. And once you begin to believe or expect good things to come—you’re in the Vortex. And once you get in there, you’re no longer the only uncooperative component.

Now you are a cooperative component. Now you get to rendezvous with your money. You get to rendezvous with your vitality. You get to rendezvous with your clarity. You get to rendezvous with your lover, with your loving neighbor, with the things of your environment that you’ve been wishing for. You get to rendezvous with all of the good stuff that you’ve put there once you begin to get in the vicinity of what feels good. And you can train yourself there—you can do it in a day.

By tomorrow, you could be Vibrationally so close to who-you-are that you would begin to see the evidence. You would begin to see movement: Your bank account will shift toward what you are wanting; the people in your neighborhood will begin to be more cooperative. . . . You have control of everything that rendezvous with you when you get control of the Vibration that you offer, and you get control of the Vibration that you offer when you care about how you feel.

When you care about how you feel and you lean in the direction of what feels best, you become, in a very short time, a Vibrational Match to who-you-have-become. And then people who are watching you say, “What happened to you? You’re just happy all the time, and every time I turn around, some other wonderful thing is coming to you.”

And you say, “I got inThe Vortex.”

They say, “What?”

You say, “Yeah, I got into the Vortex, and I’m in the Vortex.”

“What? How do you get in? Where’s the door? Where’s the door? I want in, too.”

And you say, “Well, you’ve got your own, and you have to feel your way in. There’s not a written script. There’s not a detailed manual. There’s not an obvious door. There’s not a combination lock. You just feel your way in.”

“Well, how do you know if you’re on the track?”

“You feel better than you just did.”

“Well, I feel like revenge.”

“Well, you’re probably moving in the right direction. Because right beforerevenge, how did you feel?”

“Well, before revenge I felt powerless. Now I’m feeling revenge.”

“Good. You’re on the path.”

“I’m feeling revenge and I’m on the path to the Vortex of Well-Being?”

“Yeah, yeah. Just don’t go back to powerlessness, and you’ll be on the path.”

“What comes after revenge?”

“Anger. You’ll be real mad at a lot of people.”

“Oh, I’ve been there.”

“Well, go there again, because when you’re angry, you’re on the path. Anger is better than revenge. It’s closer to your Vortex.”

“What comes after that?”

“Frustration. Overwhelment. Pettiness.”

“Hmm, hmm, I can sort of get that. What comes after that?”

“Hope.”

“Haven’t had any of that in a long time.”

“Well then, look forward to it. Look forward to hope because when you get (you can say to your friend) in the vicinity of hope, you’ll get in the Vortex. Occasionally (every day) something will happen that will give you evidence that you are the Deliberate Creator of your experience. If you can hang around in hope, even only on two or three subjects, you’ll get in the Vortex enough that you will come to believe. If you can make your way to hope—and it’s not hard—you’ll get in the Vortex often enough that you’ll start to believe.”

“Believe what?” your friend will say.

• You’ll begin to believe in the power of your thought.
• You’ll begin to believe in the goodness of this Universe.
• You’ll begin to believe in the worthiness of your Being.
• You’ll begin to believe in the power of who-you-are.
• You’ll begin to believe in the cooperative Law of Attraction.
• You’ll begin to believe that all things are possible.
• You’ll begin to believe that you are the creator of your own reality.
• You’ll begin to believe that you can control your thoughts by paying attention to the way you feel.
• You will begin to believe that you can be or do or have anything.  

“That’s what I know,” you will tell your friend, “now that I am in the Vortex.”

And what isThe Vortex? It’s just the Vibrational, advanced announcement of who you have become. All the cooperative parts of the Universe have already been gathered

"What does love mean?"

''Find the person who will love you because of your differences and not in spite of them and you have found a lover for life.''
A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, "What does love mean?" The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:
"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all even when his hands got arthritis, too. That's Love."
Rebecca - age 8
When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth."
Billy - age 4
"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."
Terri - age 5
"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen."
Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)
"If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate."
Nikka - age 6
"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday."
Noelle - age 7
"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore."
Cindy - age 8
"Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford."
Chris - age 7
"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day."
Mary Ann - age 4
"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget."
Jessica - age 8
And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.  The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked him what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing, I just helped him cry."

Live a life of serenity, not a life of regrets.

1. Your presence is a present to the world.
2. You're unique; one of a kind.
3. Your life can be what you want it to be.
4. Take the days just one at a time.
5. Count your blessings, not your troubles.
6. You'll make it through whatever comes along.
7. Within you are so many answers.
8. Understand, have courage, be strong.
9. Don't put limits on yourself.
10. So many dreams are waiting to be realized.
11. Decisions are too important to leave to chance.
12. Reach for your peak, your goal, and your prize.
13. Nothing wastes more energy than worrying.
14. The longer one carries a problem, the heavier it gets.
15. Don't take things too seriously.
16. Live a life of serenity, not a life of regrets.
17. Remember that a little love goes a long way.
18. Remember that a lot goes forever.
19. Remember that friendship is a wise investment.
20. Life's treasures are people -- together.
21. Realize that nothing is ever too late.
22. Do ordinary things in an extraordinary way.
23. Have health and hope and happiness.
24. Take the time to wish upon a star

Learning to trust your higher self.

We all have different opinions. You have the right to yours and I have the right to mine. No matter what goes on in this world, the only thing you can work on is what is right for you. You have to get in touch with your inner guidance because it is the wisdom that knows the answer for you. It’s not easy to listen to yourself when your friends and family are telling you what to do. Yet, all the answers to all the questions you are ever going to ask are within you now.
Every time you say, “I don’t know,” you shut the door to your own inner wisdom. The messages you get from your Higher Self are positive and supportive of you. If you start getting negative messages, then you are working from ego and your human mind level, and even perhaps your imagination, although positive messages often come to us through our imagination and our dreams.
Support yourself by making the right choices for you. When in doubt, ask yourself, “Is this a decision that is loving for me? Is this right for me now?” You may make another decision at some later point, a day, a week, or a month later. But ask yourself these questions in each moment.
As we learn to love ourselves and trust our Higher Power, we become co-creators with the Infinite Spirit of a loving world. Our love for ourselves moves us from being victims to being winners. Our love for ourselves attracts wonderful experiences to us. Have you ever noticed that people who feel good about themselves are naturally attractive? They usually have a quality about them that is just wonderful. They are happy with their lives. Things come to them easily and effortlessly.
Who are you? What did you come here to learn? What did you come here to teach? We all have a unique purpose. We are more than our personalities, our problems, our fears, and our illnesses. We are far more than our bodies. We are all connected with everyone on the planet and with all of life. We are all spirit, light, energy, vibration, and love, and we all have the power to live our lives with purpose and meaning.

Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way.

Do not undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
It is because we are different that each of us is special.
Do not set your goals by what other people deem important.  Only you know what is best for you.

Do not take for granted the things closest to your heart.  Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.

Do not let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past nor for the future.  By living your life one day at a time, you live all of the days of your life.

Do not give up when you still have something to give.  Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.  It is a fragile thread that binds us to each other.
Do not be afraid to encounter risks.  It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.

Do not shut love out of your life by saying it is impossible to find.  The quickest way to receive love is to give love.  The fastest way to lose love is too hold it too tightly.  In addition, the best way to keep love is to give it wings
Do not dismiss your dreams.  To be without dreams is to be without hope.  To be without hope is to be without purpose.

Do not run through life so fast that you forget not only where you have been, but also where you are going.  Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way.

"12 SIGNS YOUR FALLING IN LOVE"

1. You'll Read His/Her Texts Over And Over Again
2. You'll Walk Really Really Slow, While You're With Him/Her.
3. You'll Pretend 2 Be Shy, Whenever You're With Him/Her. . .(This Can Also Be In Dreams) :-)
4. While Thinking About Him/Her Your Heart Will Beat Faster And Faster. . . (dhak dhakdhak. .)
5. By Listening To His/Her Voice, You'll Smile For No Reason.
6. While Looking At Him/Her, You Cant See The Other People Around You, You Can Only See That Person.
7. You'll Start Listening To Slow Songs.
8. He/She Becomes All You Think About.
9. When U Were At Class Room, Ur Mind Was Not With U (Sleeping In The Time Of Day, With Open Eyes) hahaha :-)
10. You'll Realize That, You're Always Smiling To Yourself, When You Think About Them.
11. You'll Do Anything For Him/Her.
12. While Reading This, There Was One Person On Your Mind The Whole Time, If You R In TRUE LOVE. . .!!! :-)